’Tis a noble journey you’ve embarked upon, Donna, and like all noble journeys, it is not without its share of fears and self-challenges. When I read that e-mail you said you received, I thought “Holy, shit!” I never received anything like that, but can’t even imagine what I’d do if I did! Keep on your journey — I like your chances of success at breaking the chains of the crules that bind you, and finding great pleasure at the end of the road, or even better, along the way. You can do it!