Thanks a lot, Victoria. We had gotten quite complacent (me more than her, but we both were there) up until about 3 years ago, then we had a big blowout that nearly cost our relationship. It was a wake-up call for both of us, and we’ve been doing this sort of thing ever since, whenever we think we need to recharge the vitality of the relationship. It really helps — neither one of us wants to go back to that complacency, or lose what we’ve worked so hard to build.